You've Been Holding it Together for a Long Time

Therapy is a place where you don’t have to

This might be for you if…

You’re exhausted in a way that’s hard to explain. Not just tired, but worn down from years of showing up for everyone else while quietly pushing your own needs aside.

You might be carrying the weight of a painful relationship…past or present. You might be stuck in patterns you can see clearly but can’t seem to change. You might have lost touch with who you are outside of what you do for everyone else.

Or maybe something has shifted recently. A separation. A loss. A transition that’s left you questioning everything. And you’re ready…finally…to stop white-knuckling it alone.

If any of that sounds familiar, individual therapy might be exactly what you need.

What we can work through together…

When the past keeps showing up

  • Growing up feeling unseen, dismissed, or like your feelings were too much
  • Relationships that shaped how you see yourself — and not in a good way
  • Recovering from emotional abuse or a relationship with a narcissistic partner
  • Patterns you inherited from your family that you’re tired of repeating
  • Carrying wounds across generations that were never really yours to carry

How you feel inside

  • Anxiety and a mind that won’t stop running
  • Burnout and rest doesn’t seem to fix
  • A harsh inner voice that’s always pointing out what you did wrong
  • Feeling responsible for everyone’s emotions — and exhausted by it
  • Needing to do everything yourself, and quietly resenting it
  • Feeling disconnected from who you actually are
  • Rebuilding trust in yourself after a long time of doubting yourself

Relationships & connection

  • The same relationship patterns showing up again and again
  • Saying yes when you mean no — and resenting yourself for it
  • Struggling to trust yourself or the people around you
  • Feeling like you’re too much, or never quite enough
  • Boundaries that feel impossible to hold without guilt
  • Separation, divorce, or high-conflict co-parenting

Women's experiences

  • Pregnancy, postpartum, and the identity shift that comes with it
  • Fertility challenges and pregnancy loss
  • Birth trauma
  • The invisible weight of managing everything at home — without anyone noticing
  • Perimenopause and menopause
  • Navigating major life transitions without losing yourself in the process

How we'll work together…

Individual therapy with me is a space that’s entirely yours. No agenda except yours. No performance required.

My approach is warm, collaborative, and active. I draw on attachment theory and trauma-informed care, particularly the kind of pain that develops slowly, in relationships, over time. I use parts-based work to help you understand the different sides of yourself, emotion-focused approaches to get underneath the surface, and body-based work to help you feel safe again…not just understand why you don’t.

I’ll ask the questions that actually get somewhere. I’ll notice things. I’ll gently challenge the stories you’ve been telling yourself for years…not to take anything away from you, but to help you figure out which ones are still true and which ones are just old survival strategies you no longer need.

The goal isn’t to turn you into someone different. It’s to help you reconnect with who you were before you had to spend so much energy just getting through.

The logistics

Session length

50 minutes or 80 minutes

Frequency

Most people start with weekly/biweekly sessions. Meeting more regularly at the beginning gives us the space to go deeper, rather than spending each session catching up on what’s happened since the last one. As things shift and you find your footing, we’ll move naturally to biweekly, then monthly, and eventually as-needed. That said, this is always flexible and shaped around your goals, your life, and what works for you.
 
Format & Availability
Virtual and in-person sessions during the day or evening available.

Fees

50-minute sessions $150. 80-minute sessions $175. For more detailed information on payment including insurance and direct billing options please see the fees page.

Ready to take the first step?

Reaching out is often the hardest part. If something on this page resonated with you, I’d love to connect.

I offer a free 15-minute consultation — no pressure, no commitment. Just a chance to see if we’re a good fit.