Trauma Recovery Counselling

Trauma recovery is not just about what happened — it’s about how your nervous system continues to carry stress, overwhelm, anxiety, and emotional pain afterward.

Trauma can impact the way we think, feel, connect, trust, rest, parent, work, love, and move through the world. You may find yourself feeling anxious, emotionally overwhelmed, shut down, reactive, disconnected, exhausted, or simply unlike yourself.

You do not need to have experienced a single catastrophic event for something to leave a lasting impact on your nervous system.

Trauma can stem from:

  • Difficult relationships
  • Emotional abuse or narcissistic dynamics
  • Divorce or betrayal
  • Childhood experiences
  • Medical trauma
  • Grief and loss
  • High-conflict family dynamics
  • Pregnancy, postpartum, or parenting stress
  • Chronic stress or burnout
  • Accidents or sudden life changes
  • Feeling unsafe, unseen, or emotionally alone for long periods of time

You Might Benefit From Trauma Therapy If…

  • You feel emotionally exhausted or overwhelmed
  • You overthink everything and struggle to relax
  • You shut down during conflict or stress
  • You feel stuck in survival mode
  • You have difficulty trusting others or yourself
  • You feel emotionally reactive or disconnected
  • You struggle with boundaries, guilt, or people-pleasing
  • You notice repeating relationship patterns
  • Your body feels tense, anxious, or constantly “on”
  • You feel like you’ve lost parts of yourself over time

Areas of Focus

I support teens, adults, individuals, and couples navigating:

  • Trauma & PTSD symptoms
  • Anxiety and nervous system overwhelm
  • Relationship and attachment challenges
  • Emotional abuse recovery
  • Life transitions and identity shifts
  • Burnout and chronic stress
  • Parenting and co-parenting stress
  • Separation and divorce
  • Grief and loss
  • Emotional regulation and communication

Therapy That Meets You Where You Are

Some clients come to therapy carrying years of emotional pain, trauma, burnout, or relationship stress.

Others simply reach a point where they’re tired of holding everything together on their own.

Therapy with me is not about being analyzed or judged.
It’s a space where you can show up exactly as you are — messy thoughts, complicated feelings, dark humour, tears, uncertainty and all.

Some days we process deep emotional experiences.
Some days we focus on practical tools, relationships, boundaries, communication, or simply getting through the week.

You do not need to come in knowing what to say.
You do not need to “do therapy perfectly.”

We move at a pace that feels safe, manageable, and human.

  • parenting stress
  • Separation and divorce
  • Grief and loss
  • Emotional regulation and communication

What we work toward:

 
  • Feeling more connected to yourself and your emotions
  • Greater emotional safety, stability, and self-trust
  • Less anxiety, shame, hypervigilance, or emotional numbness
  • Understanding the impact trauma has had on your relationships and nervous system
  • Healthier boundaries and more secure connection with others
  • More self-compassion and less self-blame
  • A nervous system that feels calmer, safer, and less reactive
  • Processing difficult experiences without becoming overwhelmed
  • A life that feels more grounded, meaningful, and authentically yours

Fees + details

1 hour couples session $165

1 hour individual session $150

1.5 hour couples session $200

1.5 hour individual session $175

Online or in-person in Nanaimo

Direct Billing Available

ICBC-Approved Provider

Trauma changes us — but healing can too.